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HI! WE'RE YUE & JULIE – 

Active daters turned dating insiders here to help you navigate all the highs and lows of finding your person.

Just like you – we were burnt out, confused, and hurt by dating and relationships. So we decided to really dig in to understand why we date the way we do. Almost a decade later, after talking to thousands of modern daters and world-renowned experts, we believe we've cracked the code on how to navigate modern dating in a way that works for you. We completely changed the way we date and do relationships – and know you can too

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From our decade of studying modern dating, we've found a way out of this love crisis and endless maze of modern dating. We'll help you take control of your love life, so you can cut through the BS and find the relationship that's right for you.

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See why Dateable is one of the top dating podcasts of 2024!

As one of the longest running and top dating podcasts (according to The New York Times, The HuffPost, Oprah Daily, and more), Dateable will give you the most in-depth and unfiltered exploration into the world of modern love– where no topic is off limits and no question is left unanswered. No matter the scenario, you'll get all the necessary perspectives and hot takes to navigate modern dating and build healthier relationships with yourself and others.

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This podcast helped me find my partner!

After a year of online dating I was ready to throw in the towel. Then I got a new perspective from Datable and began to be more intentional with my messaging and gained the confidence to lead with vulnerability. I started asking questions like “what have you learned about yourself in the last 10 years?” Instead of “do you like hiking?” and the variety in responses made it so clear who was and wasn’t worth investing in, and also helped me stand out and make deeper connections.  I couldn’t be happier with the deep connection I have formed with them. Thanks!!!

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This podcast helped me find my partner!

After a year of online dating I was ready to throw in the towel. Then I got a new perspective from Datable and began to be more intentional with my messaging and gained the confidence to lead with vulnerability. I started asking questions like “what have you learned about yourself in the last 10 years?” Instead of “do you like hiking?” and the variety in responses made it so clear who was and wasn’t worth investing in, and also helped me stand out and make deeper connections.  I couldn’t be happier with the deep connection I have formed with them. Thanks!!!

Savvy audio addict, Apple Podcasts
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My favorite podcast, and not just for dating!

These two gals are hilarious and an amazing resource for learning and perspective when it comes to dating, life, meeting people… I look forward to listening to every episode!I I am reminded of why I’m dating the first place, what I want out of it, and how I want to show up when I’m in it. It’s been incredibly supportive over the past year for me personally as I’ve been on and off dating apps; their perspective has brought me back from the feelings of frustration and has brought back the excitement and joy that can come from meeting new people.

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Thank you Yue and Julie!

I’ve been listening to this podcast for over a year now and it’s completely changed the way I view dating and relationships. I appreciate all your insights and the guests that you bring on. I love learning about different dating perspectives and challenging my own biases around relationships. Dating used to be so daunting and there was always a sense of dread around going on dates. I would settle for people that weren’t aligned with me, but because of this podcast, I feel so more at peace with myself and confident in the qualities I’m looking for in a partner.

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See how we've helped daters just like you

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When I first turned to Dateable, I felt completely burnt out with dating. I just got ghosted after a 12-hour "date.' Once I started shifting the way I approached dating with Yue & Julie's guidance, I started getting into more relationships – including the one I'm happily in now! Dateable has been a game-changer to the way I love others – and myself! 

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Shieldy, New Jersey
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I came to Dateable because I felt behind because I hadn't been in a relationship before. Julie & Yue helped me see that this was 1) normal and 2) helped me gain the skills and confidence to not only enter my first real relationship – but also recognize when it wasn't working for me. I am now dating someone for just over 5 months and could not be happier! 

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Jason, California
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After 5 years of being single, I'm officially off the market! I met someone I would have never swiped on before – in fact, I was adamantly anti-apps for years. But after using a lot of the advice from Dateable, I decided to listen to my gut when swiping right. And I couldn't be happier. Month later, I'm with a man who fulfills my needs and is everything I've ever asked for.

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Caitlin, Florida
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After years of dating, I finally met my girlfriend in a grocery store of all places! I truly could not have gotten this far without Julie & Yue’s help. They gave me the confidence to approach more people IRL and helped me learn how to build connection and rapport in these interactions. I’d probably be lost without you all but now I’m in a happy relationship!

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Shaq, Washington DC

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After years of dating, I finally met my girlfriend in a grocery store of all places! I truly could not have gotten this far without Julie & Yue’s help. They gave me the confidence to approach more people IRL and helped me learn how to build connection and rapport in these interactions. I’d probably be lost without you all but now I’m in a happy relationship!

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After 5 years of being single, I'm officially off the market! I met someone I would have never swiped on before – in fact, I was adamantly anti-apps for years. But after using a lot of the advice from Dateable, I decided to listen to my gut when swiping right. And I couldn't be happier. Month later, I'm with a man who fulfills my needs and is everything I've ever asked for.

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Caitlin, Florida
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When I first turned to Dateable, I felt completely burnt out with dating. I had just gotten ghosted after a 12-hour phone "date.' Once I started shifting the way I approached dating with Yue & Julie's guidance, I started getting into more relationships – including the one I'm happily in now! Dateable has been a game-changer to the way I love others – and myself! 

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Shieldy, New Jersey
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I came to Dateable because I felt behind because I hadn't been in a relationship before. Julie & Yue helped me see that this was 1) totally normal and 2) helped me gain the skills and confidence to not only enter my first real relationship – but also recognize when it wasn't meeting my needs and working for me. I truly feel like a more confident dater ready to take on the dating world.

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Jason, California