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Meeting People IRL Masterclass

Are you looking to meet more eligible people to date but are sick of swiping on apps? Have you tried meeting people IRL and realized how hard it is nowadays? If so, this masterclass is for you! We'll help you bring more structure and intentionality to meeting people in the wild – so you can use your time more effectively and get to the good stuff!

Let's face it: dating is hard!

Our relationships are one of the biggest predictors of happiness. Yet dating can make us anything but.

We've all been told that dating should come naturally. But in today's world, it's more difficult than ever. It's OK to get help. So that's why we're here to guide you along the way – giving you an even more personalized experience to fast-track your love life.

After interviewing thousands of modern daters and world-renowned experts, we feel like we've got a pretty good grasp on what's happening in the world of modern dating. We've figured out how to use modern dating to our advantage + armed others with this inform
t Let us give you this insider's info to help propel your love life forward!
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Because we've been here ourselves and we know what it takes to start dating differently so you can start falling in love.
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We want you to feel empowered & in control of your love life. Check out our programs to find what's right for you.

So what are you waiting for?

More than a podcast,
‍your sounding board —

We're so excited to welcome you to The Sounding Board by the Dateable podcast. This is a premium members-only, community that is a true extension of the podcast and Facebook group. You'll be able to have Julie and Yue provide all the wisdom and guidance in a much more intimate and real-time way.

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"I've been able to further understand myself as an individual, which in turn provided clarity to what I need, want, and deserve in a relationship. I'm now dating someone exclusively and I can see how this relationship is aligning to what serves me best. The program has provided me with the essential tools on the "how" to navigate this relationship as it progresses. It is truly an authentic (non-gimmicky) approach that has facilitated the growth of this newly founded partnership that is fulfilling and genuine. Thank you Julie and Yue!"

Natalie

"The program provided helped me dig deeper into blind spots and think more clearly about my wants and needs. I now find myself being more open-minded when using dating apps and while on dates, and I actually enjoy the process more! I'm definitely glad I signed up for the program and am grateful to Julie and Yue for creating content and a community to provide support to those of us just trying to find our person."

Katherine

"The program really helped me identify the limiting beliefs that were holding me back in my dating life. I've been able to identify what I want in a partner that aligns with my values and showing up as my true authentic self vs. being someone I think others want me to be. The program helped me grow, and I am confident I am on the right path to meeting my life partner. I highly recommend this program to anyone ready to take their dating life to the next level and ultimately find a meaningful relationship."

Preston

"Through this program, I'm learning more about myself and things are becoming clearer. I knew I put up some walls inadvertently, but now I see that I do this all the time.Being aware of this has helped me craft more helpful self-talk and challenge myself to do what is uncomfortable with the new person I’ve been dating. It’s still new, but he’s wonderful and it feels good. Something is changing for me.”

Sonia

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Meeting People IRL Masterclass

Start meeting people in the wild in a way that feels authentic to you. This 1-hour course will streamline it all so you can be efficient and effective with your time – and start turning strangers into connections this summer

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1:1 Clarity Call

Do you need help with a specific dating situation? Or are you wondering what's holding you back? We'll unpack your situation and by the end of the call you'll have clarity of how you can proceed to move forward in your love life.

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Dating Profile Review

Upload photos of your dating app and we'll provide feedback from our years of looking at thousands of dating profiles. We'll give you the honest take you need of what's working and what's not, with easy tweaks that can help you get better matches.

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Finding Your Person

Let go of toxic dating patterns, and learn to approach dating in a more confident + hopeful way. Our 6-week signature program helps you get in the driver's seat of your love life and date in a way that's authentic to you.

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22 Day Dating App Reset

Get 22 days of tips, tricks, hacks, and ideas of how you can use dating apps differently to actually get the results you want (you know, actually meeting up IRL and having great dates).Start using apps in a way that feels more fun and authentic.

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Your Questions Answered—

Can you tell me more about what’s included?
We sure can! ‘The Monthly Challenge’ is in the form of an exclusive podcast episode that you can listen to on your podcast feed or within Patreon. Each month, we’ll help you reframe your mindset on common challenges by giving you actionable tips to put into practice. You’ll be able to reflect on the changes either on your own or in an optional discussion group with others in the community.
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The ‘Dateable After-Show’ is a monthly hour-long interactive event with the Dateable team or fireside chats with past guests. You’ll be able to participate in the event and/or ask the questions you’re dying to know in a more intimate setting. There will also be a chance to break-out with smaller groups when applicable to foster your connections more deeply with other members.
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The ‘Dating Council’ is a way to bring your dating questions or dilemmas directly to Yue & Julie in a private setting. You’ll be able to sign up once a month for a 20 minute slot to present your conundrum and get some sound advice. This is limited to 10 members right now due to our bandwidth. See the tiers to decide what works best for you. All tiers also include discounts on Dateable merch in addition to having priority access to asking questions during the monthly ask-us-anything livestream.

When do these events happen?
The first Thursday of every month you’ll receive the guided monthly challenge. You can listen to this whenever but we recommend starting after it’s released to maximize your month!
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The second Thursday of the month will be the public ask-us-anything live stream via the Facebook group followed by a virtual happy hour. You’ll be able to add your questions up until midnight the Wednesday before.
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The third Thursday of every month will be the Dateable after-show virtual live event. If you can’t attend, you’ll be able to watch the video whenever.
The fourth Thursday of every month will be the monthly challenge discussion group which will be part of the weekly virtual happy hour. All events happen at 5:30 PM PST / 8:30 PM EST.
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How do I listen to the guided monthly challenge?
You will get a personalized podcast feed that you can add to your favorite podcast app that supports a private RSS feed. You can listen directly through Apple Podcasts, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, PocketCasts, Podcast Addict, and more. After adding the private feed once, you’ll automatically get each new episode every month. It’s pretty straight forward but will send you instructions after joining and will be available for support if you need it. Unfortunately, Spotify doesn’t allow for private RSS feeds but you can also listen via the Patreon app or website.
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Where do these events take place?
The virtual event will be via a zoom link that will be sent through Patreon to members. The ask-us-anything live-stream will be via Facebook live in the Facebook group. The happy hours will continue in Facebook rooms within the Facebook group. The monthly challenge discussion group will also take place in ‘The Sounding Board VIP Lounge’ Facebook room.
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Do I have to participate in events?
Nope, if you want a solo experience, you can purely listen to the guided monthly challenge. It is completely optional to participate in the discussion around it. If you want to watch the live stream or the Dateable after-show, you can also do that via video.
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What if I have more questions?
Feel free to send us an email to support@dateablpodcast.com and we’ll answer your questions!

Meeting People IRL Masterclass

More than a podcast,
‍your sounding board —

$8/month

$18/month

$68/month

Weekly happy hours + Podcast Discussion groups

A sneak peek into the'Dateable After Show' events

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