Coffee Meets Bagel, The League, Luvidya, and Three Day Rule join us at General Assembly where these industry experts tell us the best ways to navigate the paradox of choice, messaging black hole, superficiality in dating apps, lack of mystery/romance, accountability, and how to leverage tech to work for us when it comes to finding love.
BONUS Tech Dating with Coffee Meets Bagel, The League, Luvidya, and Three Day Rule
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The dateable podcast features real stories from real people of how they make dating work for not on your host. Uej former dating coach turned dating insider. If you will on each episode you'll hear commentary from my producer. Julie crosscheck and other surprise co hosts. This episode of dateable is brought to you by five hundred brunches. Five hundred branches connect like minded people with similar interests to meet in real life over brunch. You answer a questionnaire questionnaire about your interest and how you spend your time and then they'll match you. In small groups of six to eight at a brunch spot. In san francisco get a free entry into a brench now. By signing up at five hundred branches dot com and using the code date able. Hey everyone welcome to another episode of dateable a show all about modern dating. We're still in the off season getting ready for season six which is about to start with a bang. But before we do that. It's time we revisit a panel we moderated at general assembly on tech and dating. The discussion tackled five challenges of modern dating including the paradox of choice. The messaging black hole superficiality lack of mystery and romance and the lack of accountability. Our panelists included industry experts from coffee meets bagel three day rule. The league and video and the goal of the discussion was to find ways to leverage technology. To work for us when it comes to finding love so let's go from the very beginning. Well indeed on the new us show the anita so her real stories from real people of how big modern turkey were or not a lot on her a year old restaurant and also seen my whole how nissan a real life is a lot of successful days. Before we get to that. I want you can complain. All of us and resolutions ecology wore us. So we're gonna learn some face lavished research but we should use your title for the lesson own date the only deity services and i will slay the last date our own days users. We'll see signed a decision for the las was wild back in someone are i'm in mind was always as i'm sure i'm out analyzing the ways of interest online dating. You really love in your by now. I'm trying of shirl getting all as a one zero three and my all my was now all since then.
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