More than a podcast,
your sounding board — 

We're so excited to welcome you to The Sounding Board by the Dateable podcast. This is a premium members-only, community that is a true extension of the podcast and Facebook group. You'll be able to have Julie and Yue provide all the wisdom and guidance in a much more intimate and real-time way.

Join the Sounding Board
Let's face it: it's a weird time to be dating
...maybe you're back on the dating scene after a breakup, divorce, or time off
...or you've recently entered a new relationship and want to feel confident in it
....or you just want to know how to navigate dating in this new COVID-19 world

And let's say you are dating or in a relationship. Inevitably something comes up that throws you for a loop.
.....Is anyone else experiencing this? 
....Is there another way I could be looking at this situation?
...does anyone else get what I'm really going through? 
....WWJ&Y do? 

We want you to feel empowered & in control of your love life.  Dating and relationships can be scary because they force us to put a magnifying glass upon ourselves. But we want you to have the wisdom and intelligence to take on anything life throws at you, especially when it comes to love.
What if we had Yue& Julie as our guides and a 'sounding board' of other wise Dateable listeners to help us navigate it all?
Introducing: The Sounding Board!
  • Challenge yourself through our guided audio exercises and prompts. It's like we're your personal guides to help shift your mindset and create the love life YOU want
  • Attend our virtual events aka 'The Dateable After Show' for live shows by the Dateable team + interactive fireside chats with past guests to go even deeper and have fun in the process
  • Connect with us + and the most intelligent, diverse, and introspective community of women and men on the internet
Show me the deets
You pick what works best for you

We're offering introductory rates to our founding members to make this more accessible to the current community!
Join now in October and get the rest of the month for free including our first live interactive event!


With this tier for $8/month you'll get the guided audio sessions, access to the community to discuss the monthly challenge, plus more! 

Over a $20/month value

Friends w/ Benefits

With this tier for $18/month you get everything in the Friends level + access to the monthly interactive event either live (or via a recording if you can't make it)

Over a $50/month value

Exclusive Relationship

With this tier for $68/month you get everything in the Friends w/ benefits level + the ability to bring your dating questions directly to Yue & Julie via a monthly virtual coffee chat

Over a $100/month value

PS: We also offer discounts when you pay annually

You're also supporting the podcast you know and love!

As independent creators, this allows us to keep the podcast going in a way that is unfiltered, uncensored, real, and honest.
Our mission with Dateable is to help people like you show up fully in the version of a relationship that works best for YOU. And most importantly: have an amazing and fulfilling relationship with yourself – whether you have a partner or not. We are so excited about The Sounding Board as we deeply believe it’ll help you learn and grow, all while having some fun along the way.

So join today - it’s completely risk-free: 

  • Join now in October and get the rest of the month for free including our first live interactive event!
  • You can cancel at any time, easily. We are powered by Patreon which allows for easy cancelation right through their site. If you cancel, you will have access for the rest of your paid-for period.
  • Your payment is safe and secure. Your payment is SSL-encrypted and Patreon doesn’t store your payment details ever.
  • Awesome customer support: If you need anything, Julie, Yue and our team will be happy to help.

Hear what members
have to say —  

Don't just take our word for it. Our members always tell us how life-changing this community has been, especially during this time!

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“This is a community that I look forward to seeing every week especially for the weekly happy hours and events. It's a safe space where I can express my ideas and feelings about the dating experience. It’s a true extension of the podcast.”

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Shieldy, New Jersey
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“I love the openness that the members bring in discussing our shared experiences. It’s also inspiring to see how we are all working together  in a common mission to bid single life farewell."

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Ricky, NYC
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For the last 3 years, I have found myself as the only single woman in my group of friends. I was longing for connections with others who are like-minded and navigating this dating world too.  I kept thinking it was hard to find friends after 30. But thanks to this group, I have found my people!

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Caitlin, Los Angeles
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The online community we have here was a pleasant surprise when the pandemic hit. This community is a great way to be silly and honest with similar people looking to just be comfortable in this scary YET Dateable world.

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Jason, San Francisco

Your Questions Answered— 

Can you tell me more about what’s included?
We sure can! ‘The Monthly Challenge’ is in the form of an exclusive podcast episode that you can listen to on your podcast feed or within Patreon. Each month, we’ll help you reframe your mindset on common challenges by giving you actionable tips to put into practice. You’ll be able to reflect on the changes either on your own or in an optional discussion group with others in the community. 

The ‘Dateable After-Show’ is a monthly hour-long interactive event with the Dateable team or fireside chats with past guests. You’ll be able to participate in the event and/or ask the questions you’re dying to know in a more intimate setting. There will also be a chance to break-out with smaller groups when applicable to foster your connections more deeply with other members.

The ‘Dating Council’ is a way to bring your dating questions or dilemmas directly to Yue & Julie in a private setting. You’ll be able to sign up once a month for a 20 minute slot to present your conundrum and get some sound advice. This is limited to 10 members right now due to our bandwidth. See the tiers to decide what works best for you. All tiers also include discounts on Dateable merch in addition to having priority access to asking questions during the monthly ask-us-anything livestream. 

When do these events happen?
The first Thursday of every month you’ll receive the guided monthly challenge. You can listen to this whenever but we recommend starting after it’s released to maximize your month! 

The second Thursday of the month will be the public ask-us-anything live stream via the Facebook group followed by a virtual happy hour. You’ll be able to add your questions up until midnight the Wednesday before. 

The third Thursday of every month will be the Dateable after-show virtual live event. If you can’t attend, you’ll be able to watch the video whenever.  
The fourth Thursday of every month will be the monthly challenge discussion group which will be part of the weekly virtual happy hour. All events happen at 5:30 PM PST / 8:30 PM EST. 

How do I listen to the guided monthly challenge? 
You will get a personalized podcast feed that you can add to your favorite podcast app that supports a private RSS feed. You can listen directly through Apple Podcasts, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, PocketCasts, Podcast Addict, and more. After adding the private feed once, you’ll automatically get each new episode every month. It’s pretty straight forward but will send you instructions after joining and will be available for support if you need it. Unfortunately, Spotify doesn’t allow for private RSS feeds but you can also listen via the Patreon app or website. 

Where do these events take place?
The virtual event will be via a zoom link that will be sent through Patreon to members. The ask-us-anything live-stream will be via Facebook live in the Facebook group. The happy hours will continue in Facebook rooms within the Facebook group. The monthly challenge discussion group will also take place in ‘The Sounding Board VIP Lounge’ Facebook room. 

Do I have to participate in events?
Nope, if you want a solo experience, you can purely listen to the guided monthly challenge. It is completely optional to participate in the discussion around it. If you want to watch the live stream or the Dateable after-show, you can also do that via video. 

What if I have more questions?
Feel free to send us an email to and we’ll answer your questions!